When all else fails, comfort them.
For kids, the greatest source of fear is the unknown. They might not understand why the lights are off, or why their familiar comforts aren’t working anymore. You can distract and reassure them by explaining why the outage might be happening in ways they’ll understand. Maybe a tree fell onto the power line. You know the big poles all along the sidewalk? Well, it was really windy just now—maybe one of those trees fell over!
Remind them that home is still home, even in the dark. You can take them on a tour to show them that their surroundings haven’t changed: the couch is still here, the table is there and so on. The important part is to stay present. When your kids are afraid, they’ll look to you for comfort. Stay calm, and they’ll follow your lead. As long as you’re there for them, they’ll be ok.
This might be a good time to spend the night together as a family. You can drag bedding into a central room and pretend you’re having a big sleepover. Grab favorite blankets, teddy bears, toys—anything that will help them feel safe. They might be missing their electronics: TV, video games and more. Sympathize and tell them you miss yours too.
You can’t predict when the power will return, but you can promise them that it’s on its way. If you’re able, check your phone for live updates on your utility company’s website or with our nationwide outage tracker. (Pro tip: keep both bookmarked for future outages.) You can show your kids how repairs are progressing and tell them that people are hard at work to bring you back online. And in the meantime, you can have some fun—after all, power outages don’t happen every day!